The Wisdom of Alan Watts: Love

Love is not something that is a sort of rare commodity, everybody has it. Everybody has love, but it can only come out when it is convinced of the impossibility and the frustration of trying to love itself. This conviction will not come through condemnations, through hating oneself, through calling self love bad names in the universe. It comes only in the awareness that one has no self to love.

People who exude love are apt to give things away. They are in every way like rivers; they stream. And so when they collect possessions and things they like, they are apt to give them to other people. Because, have you ever noticed that when you start giving things away, you keep getting more?

Peace can be made only by those who are peaceful, and love can be shown only by those who love. No work of love will flourish out of guilt, fear, or hollowness of heart, just as no valid plans for the future can be made by those who have no capacity for living now.

Never pretend to a love which you do not actually feel, for love is not ours to command.

Published by Rochdalestu

I’m a 38 year old male who has recently been diagnosed with bipolar disorder. I have found it as a new chapter in my life that has opened my eyes to a whole new perspective on myself and everything around me.

4 thoughts on “The Wisdom of Alan Watts: Love

  1. Very true..!!
    Love is not something which can be forcefully done.. It’s the faith and the understanding people have for each other.. If we cannot trust the person.. If we don’t believe someone.. We can never love him/her..!!

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  2. It is subjective but I don’t think that the word love justifies the feelings that you have when you truly are at one with another person. As it is banded about so flippantly, are people who say that they love chocolate, putting the love for a food on a par with their partner?

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